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The History of Speed Dating

Tuesday June 24, 2014

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Our research tells us that a Los Angeles Rabbi called Yaacov Deyo invented speed dating in the late nineties as a way for young Jewish singles to meet and find a partner.

Rabbi Deyo is a director Aish HaTorah - a Jewish resource group based in Los Angeles with a network of branches around the world.

It didn't take long for speed dating to spread throughout the world as a revolutionary way for busy single people to meet each other without any of the stigma associated with traditional dating agencies. Speed Dating is still very popular in the United States and it has been said that more than a quarter of New York bars host a speed dating night at least once a week.

Speed dating is also known as speeddating, speed date or speed dating in certain quarters.

The basic concept of speed dating involves an equal number of men and women attending a venue; each person spends between 3 and 10 minutes chatting to each member of the opposite sex. Each person then has to decide which people they would like to see again. The organisers facilitate an exchange of details if there is a match.

The original format involved men sitting along one side of a long table with the women lined up along the other, every few minutes the men moving along one space. Most speed dating services still operate according to this production line approach however Original Dating events in London and the UK have modified concept to give their clients more space and a generally more stylish environment.

Click here for the Wikipedia article about speed dating.

Click here to view our speed dating events in London

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HOW IT WORKS

The beauty of Speed Dating London lies in its no-nonsense approach. You take an equal number of single girls and guys, put them in a room and give them a few minutes to chat with every other member of the opposite sex.

When you get there

Original speed dating events in London normally begin at 7.30pm. You will need to register with our hosts and to begin with they will issue you with a score sheet. This will help you to keep track of the singles that you would like to meet again and perhaps go on a date with. After a short period of mingling, your host for the evening who will run through detailed instructions and give you your starting position if you are a guy or table for the event if you are a girl.

Meet & Mingle

A London speed dating event is split into two halves, each lasting around an hour, there will be an interval at half time of about 15 minutes for speed dating London. You will have between 4 and 5 minutes with each person, after which you need to tick a box on your score sheet - "yes, I would like to meet this person again" or "no. Thanks but no thanks". Or "friend" if you'd like to get to know them platonically. Make sure that you do this after each date to keep track. Afterwards there is an opportunity for everyone to meet and mingle informally - this is often where the real action begins, so make sure you don't disappear too quickly!

Complete your score sheet

After the event you simply tick who you liked on the Original Dating website and the site works about your matches automatically. If the dates you have ticked as a "yes" have reciprocated you have a match. You will be able to view the first names and message them via our site online without revealing your email address until you are ready to. You'll be having proper first dates in no time.