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Monarch Cocktail Bar, Southampton, Southampton

Tuesday, 10 March 2026

Tue 10
MAR

Tickets

£22
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Our age guides are not set in stone. You are still welcome to book tickets if you are slightly outside the published age range.
Age
30-45
Male left
10+
Female left
10+
Drinks and Conversations
Southampton Speed Dating
Meet up to 20 people
Home Southampton Speed Dating in Southampton

Speed Dating in Southampton

Monarch Cocktail Bar, Southampton, Southampton

Tuesday, 10 March 2026

Tue 10
MAR

Tickets

£22
?
Our age guides are not set in stone. You are still welcome to book tickets if you are slightly outside the published age range.
Age
30-45
Male left
10+
Female left
10+
Drinks and Conversations
Southampton Speed Dating
Meet up to 20 people
Drinks and Conversations
Southampton Speed Dating
Meet up to 20 people

About the event

If you’re hoping to meet new people and enjoy a brilliant night out, our lively speed dating event at the brand new Monarch cocktail bar is exactly what you need.

Sign up and you’ll be introduced to a room full of potential matches, with four minutes per date just enough time to feel a spark and decide whether you’d like to see someone again.

The next day, you’ll get access to our matching and messaging system. Simply choose the people you liked, and we’ll show you where the interest is mutual. From there, you can chat with your matches and arrange that all‑important follow‑up date.

If you’re ready to meet new people and enjoy a fun, relaxed evening in a fantastic new venue, secure your spot now!

Important information

- Doors open 7.00 pm
- Event starts 7.30 pm
- Event finishes 9.30 pm
- Venue closes 11.30 pm

It’s essential that you arrive before 7.25pm in order to take part. We might not be able to allow entry if you are late.

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Where

Stylish cocktail bar with expertly mixed signature and classic drinks. A relaxing vibe, perfect for a night of speed dating.

Address  Monarch Cocktail Bar, 25 Oxford St, Southampton SO14 3DJ

Nearest station  Southampton

Tel  023 8251 0432 – Please note this is not a booking line

Venue website  https://www.monarchcocktailbar.co.uk/

PLEASE NOTE: Advance booking is essential and no tickets will be available to purchase on the door. Online booking is simple and very secure. Our payments are handled by Stripe, one of the world's largest payment processors using the highest grade security currently available.

Reviews

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amanda Verified Attendee
  event great host amazing - venue a little dodgy slow to get drinks etc  
Posted: 06/02/2026
Graham Verified Attendee
  Your host was very good - she added fun energy to the event  
Posted: 06/02/2026
Katharine Verified Attendee
  lovely host  
Posted: 06/02/2026
Kate Verified Attendee
  The lady who ran the event was lovely. Everyone was very friendly and I really enjoyed it.  
Posted: 06/02/2026
Gemma Verified Attendee
Posted: 06/02/2026
PAUL Verified Attendee
  Comfortable environment, friendly organisation, quality introductions  
Posted: 06/02/2026
Gemma Verified Attendee
Posted: 05/02/2026
Sarah Verified Attendee
  Really enjoyable evening - well organised and everyone was really friendly  
Posted: 05/02/2026
Mark Verified Attendee
Posted: 05/02/2026
Nathan Verified Attendee
Posted: 05/02/2026
David Verified Attendee
  Better than apps. Meet them and judge  
Posted: 05/02/2026
Tsvetelina Verified Attendee
Posted: 05/02/2026
Larysa Verified Attendee
Posted: 05/02/2026
Alan Verified Attendee
Posted: 05/02/2026
Helen Verified Attendee
  Liked the venue but it was a bit noisy. Friendly people to chat to and enjoyed the evening.  
Posted: 05/02/2026
Daniel Verified Attendee
  Good mix of people & host was very good  
Posted: 05/02/2026
Gianmarco Verified Attendee
Posted: 05/02/2026
Gem Verified Attendee
Posted: 04/02/2026
Owen Verified Attendee
Posted: 04/02/2026
Mudassair Verified Attendee
Posted: 04/02/2026
Neil Verified Attendee
  fun night, interesting mix of ladies, Steph our host was wonderful as always.  
Posted: 04/02/2026
Lola Verified Attendee
Posted: 04/02/2026
Laura Verified Attendee
Posted: 04/02/2026
Claire Verified Attendee
  Very friendly host, brilliant ambiance. As a first time outing, it didn’t put me off!  
Posted: 04/02/2026
Wendy Verified Attendee
  Friendly group of people great host Thankyou  
Posted: 04/02/2026
Roger Verified Attendee
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Oliver Verified Attendee
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Diego Verified Attendee
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Carmelita Verified Attendee
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James Verified Attendee
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HOW IT WORKS

The beauty of Speed Dating London lies in its no-nonsense approach. You take an equal number of single girls and guys, put them in a room and give them a few minutes to chat with every other member of the opposite sex.

When you get there

Original speed dating events in London normally begin at 7.30pm. You will need to register with our hosts and to begin with they will issue you with a score sheet. This will help you to keep track of the singles that you would like to meet again and perhaps go on a date with. After a short period of mingling, your host for the evening who will run through detailed instructions and give you your starting position if you are a guy or table for the event if you are a girl.

Meet & Mingle

A London speed dating event is split into two halves, each lasting around an hour, there will be an interval at half time of about 15 minutes for speed dating London. You will have between 4 and 5 minutes with each person, after which you need to tick a box on your score sheet - "yes, I would like to meet this person again" or "no. Thanks but no thanks". Or "friend" if you'd like to get to know them platonically. Make sure that you do this after each date to keep track. Afterwards there is an opportunity for everyone to meet and mingle informally - this is often where the real action begins, so make sure you don't disappear too quickly!

Complete your score sheet

After the event you simply tick who you liked on the Original Dating website and the site works about your matches automatically. If the dates you have ticked as a "yes" have reciprocated you have a match. You will be able to view the first names and message them via our site online without revealing your email address until you are ready to. You'll be having proper first dates in no time.