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Speed Dating in Southampton

Monarch Cocktail Bar, Southampton, Southampton

Tuesday, 10 November 2026

Tue 10
NOV

Tickets

£22
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Our age guides are not set in stone. You are still welcome to book tickets if you are slightly outside the published age range.
Age
30-45
Male left
7
Female left
10+
Home Southampton Speed Dating in Southampton

Speed Dating in Southampton

Monarch Cocktail Bar, Southampton, Southampton

Tuesday, 10 November 2026

Tue 10
NOV

Tickets

£22
?
Our age guides are not set in stone. You are still welcome to book tickets if you are slightly outside the published age range.
Age
30-45
Male left
7
Female left
10+

About the event

If you’re hoping to meet new people and enjoy a brilliant night out, our lively speed dating event at the brand new Monarch cocktail bar is exactly what you need.

Sign up and you’ll be introduced to a room full of potential matches, with four minutes per date just enough time to feel a spark and decide whether you’d like to see someone again.

The next day, you’ll get access to our matching and messaging system. Simply choose the people you liked, and we’ll show you where the interest is mutual. From there, you can chat with your matches and arrange that all‑important follow‑up date.

If you’re ready to meet new people and enjoy a fun, relaxed evening in a fantastic new venue, secure your spot now!

Important information

- Doors open 7.00 pm
- Event starts 7.30 pm
- Event finishes 9.30 pm
- Venue closes 11.30 pm

It’s essential that you arrive before 7.25pm in order to take part. We might not be able to allow entry if you are late.

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Where

Stylish cocktail bar with expertly mixed signature and classic drinks. A relaxing vibe, perfect for a night of speed dating.

Address  Monarch Cocktail Bar, 25 Oxford St, Southampton SO14 3DJ

Nearest station  Southampton

Tel  023 8251 0432 – Please note this is not a booking line

Venue website  https://www.monarchcocktailbar.co.uk/

PLEASE NOTE: Advance booking is essential and no tickets will be available to purchase on the door. Online booking is simple and very secure. Our payments are handled by Stripe, one of the world's largest payment processors using the highest grade security currently available.

Reviews

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Max Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Tracey Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Rob Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Alex Verified Attendee
  I really enjoyed the event and it was lovely meeting new people. The girls were all really nice and friendly, although I wasn’t there for the girls! 😂 The pizza was a nice bonus too. There were 7 women and only 4 men, so hopefully there’ll be a better balance next time. Some conversations were more engaging than others, but overall it was a positive experience and I’d definitely give it another go. Thanks Pippa for organising it!  
Posted: 16/10/2026
Hannah Verified Attendee
  The venue and host were lovely, but the numbers were disappointing and unevenly balanced  
Posted: 16/10/2026
Sima Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Michael Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Sonja Verified Attendee
  The event was well organised and people were given an adequate time to talk to each other 👌  
Posted: 16/10/2026
Dean Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Francis Verified Attendee
  Great host!  
Posted: 16/10/2026
Robert Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Lee Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Stephen Verified Attendee
  What I liked was the atmosphere was okay and you can chat to girls in person compared to dating apps.  
Posted: 15/10/2026
David Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
Lia Verified Attendee
  For my first lovely event and great people set it up and fun ladies.  
Posted: 15/10/2026
Emma Verified Attendee
  Lovely friendly host, great venue, and simple and easy to follow the speed dating set up.  
Posted: 15/10/2026
Adam Verified Attendee
  Good fun, whether I get any matches is a question for the universe. However well organised, fun to attend and would come again/recommend  
Posted: 15/10/2026
Kris Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
Joe Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
Eleanor Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
Andrea Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
David Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
Jasper Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
Chris Verified Attendee
  I really enjoyable evening with lots of friendly people.  
Posted: 15/10/2026
Philippa Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
Donna Verified Attendee
  Nice to meet people in oerson although you suddendly reaslise how shirt 4 minutes are.  
Posted: 15/10/2026
Phil Verified Attendee
  A little lacking in numbers but still had fun  
Posted: 15/10/2026
Gary Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
William Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
ILEANA Verified Attendee
Posted: 15/10/2026
Beau Verified Attendee
Posted: 12/08/2026
Leo Verified Attendee
Posted: 11/08/2026
Beau Verified Attendee
Posted: 11/08/2026
Beau Verified Attendee
Posted: 11/08/2026
Clive Verified Attendee
Posted: 11/08/2026
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HOW IT WORKS

The beauty of Speed Dating lies in its no-nonsense approach. You take an equal number of single girls and guys, put them in a room and give them a few minutes to chat with every other member of the opposite sex.

When you get there

Original speed dating events in London normally begin at 7.30pm. You will need to register with our hosts and to begin with they will issue you with a score sheet. This will help you to keep track of the singles that you would like to meet again and perhaps go on a date with. After a short period of mingling, your host for the evening who will run through detailed instructions and give you your starting position if you are a guy or table for the event if you are a girl.

Meet & Mingle

A London speed dating event is split into two halves, each lasting around an hour, there will be an interval at half time of about 15 minutes for speed dating London. You will have between 4 and 5 minutes with each person, after which you need to tick a box on your score sheet - "yes, I would like to meet this person again" or "no. Thanks but no thanks". Or "friend" if you'd like to get to know them platonically. Make sure that you do this after each date to keep track. Afterwards there is an opportunity for everyone to meet and mingle informally - this is often where the real action begins, so make sure you don't disappear too quickly!

Complete your score sheet

After the event you simply tick who you liked on the Original Dating website and the site works about your matches automatically. If the dates you have ticked as a "yes" have reciprocated you have a match. You will be able to view the first names and message them via our site online without revealing your email address until you are ready to. You'll be having proper first dates in no time.