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Speed Dating in Southampton

Monarch Cocktail Bar, Southampton, Southampton

Thursday, 16 April 2026

Thu 16
APR

Tickets

£22
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Our age guides are not set in stone. You are still welcome to book tickets if you are slightly outside the published age range.
Age
40-55
Home Southampton Speed Dating in Southampton

Speed Dating in Southampton

Monarch Cocktail Bar, Southampton, Southampton

Thursday, 16 April 2026

Thu 16
APR

Tickets

£22
?
Our age guides are not set in stone. You are still welcome to book tickets if you are slightly outside the published age range.
Age
40-55
This is a past event, please click here to see future events in Southampton.

About the event

If you’re hoping to meet new people and enjoy a brilliant night out, our lively speed dating event at the brand new Monarch cocktail bar is exactly what you need.

Sign up and you’ll be introduced to a room full of potential matches, with four minutes per date just enough time to feel a spark and decide whether you’d like to see someone again.

The next day, you’ll get access to our matching and messaging system. Simply choose the people you liked, and we’ll show you where the interest is mutual. From there, you can chat with your matches and arrange that all‑important follow‑up date.

If you’re ready to meet new people and enjoy a fun, relaxed evening in a fantastic new venue, secure your spot now!

Important information

- Doors open 7.00 pm
- Event starts 7.30 pm
- Event finishes 9.30 pm
- Venue closes 11.30 pm

It’s essential that you arrive before 7.25pm in order to take part. We might not be able to allow entry if you are late.

Price: £22

Sorry, this event has sold out

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Where

Stylish cocktail bar with expertly mixed signature and classic drinks. A relaxing vibe, perfect for a night of speed dating.

Address  Monarch Cocktail Bar, 25 Oxford St, Southampton SO14 3DJ

Nearest station  Southampton

Tel  023 8251 0432 – Please note this is not a booking line

Venue website  https://www.monarchcocktailbar.co.uk/

PLEASE NOTE: Advance booking is essential and no tickets will be available to purchase on the door. Online booking is simple and very secure. Our payments are handled by Stripe, one of the world's largest payment processors using the highest grade security currently available.

Reviews

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Annette Verified Attendee
  Good mix of relaxed people. In-depth conversations as well as lighthearted ones. Worth the while to get back out there ..  
Posted: 23/10/2026
Nikki Verified Attendee
Posted: 23/10/2026
Lisa Verified Attendee
  The host was very friendly and helpful  
Posted: 23/10/2026
Charlotte Verified Attendee
Posted: 23/10/2026
Chris Verified Attendee
Posted: 23/10/2026
Chloe Verified Attendee
  I liked the venue and a friendly and laid back atmosphere was created. I was please the women were able to meet 15 guys. I felt bad that there was less choice of women. The event wasn’t private which I felt slightly compromised on as I live and work ( as a teacher ) in Exeter .  
Posted: 23/10/2026
Edward Verified Attendee
Posted: 23/10/2026
Chloe Verified Attendee
  I liked the venue and a friendly and laid back atmosphere was created. I was please the women were able to meet 15 guys. I felt bad that there was less choice of women. The event wasn’t private which I felt slightly compromised on as I live and work ( as a teacher ) in Exeter .  
Posted: 23/10/2026
Wolfgang Verified Attendee
  It has been very enjoyable to meet so many lovely people. It was amazing that such a short spell of time was enough to feel an emotional connection or not. Enough to imagine if I want to spend say 2-3 hours with one or more of the female participants. Many thanks to Original Dating!  
Posted: 23/10/2026
Laura Verified Attendee
Posted: 23/10/2026
Monica Verified Attendee
  well organised, nice venue, lovely group of people, and good host, all clear and felt discrete, not in a pub that was open  
Posted: 23/10/2026
Harsha Verified Attendee
  Our host Cat is lovely super friendly. And easy to talk to as well  
Posted: 23/10/2026
Jacqueline Verified Attendee
  The host, Jasmine, was brilliant. The venue was good too, especially the happy hour. I saw a couple of familiar faces too. I don't know if the speed dating thing suits me, so it is unlikely that I will do this again. A good experience nonetheless.  
Posted: 23/10/2026
Aimee Verified Attendee
Posted: 23/10/2026
Danista Verified Attendee
  great fund event in Richmond, good to meet a more local crowd to the area  
Posted: 23/10/2026
Rob Verified Attendee
Posted: 23/10/2026
Jane Verified Attendee
  Yes it was a good way to connect with people  
Posted: 23/10/2026
Fabio Verified Attendee
Posted: 23/10/2026
Mark Verified Attendee
Posted: 23/10/2026
Michael Verified Attendee
  Arta is a maze, someone to greet us and show us where to go would be good. Also name stickers.  
Posted: 22/10/2026
Joanna Verified Attendee
Posted: 22/10/2026
Chris Verified Attendee
Posted: 22/10/2026
James Verified Attendee
  Everyone down to earth, perhaps needed a bit longer to chat.  
Posted: 22/10/2026
Clint Verified Attendee
  Was a comfortable easy atmosphere but felt like as soon as it was finished it was shut down rather than creating more of an atmosphere where people may have stayed a little longer to socialise but to be fair with the storm coming through was probably better everyone headed home asap!!  
Posted: 22/10/2026
James Verified Attendee
Posted: 22/10/2026
Lisa Verified Attendee
Posted: 22/10/2026
Michael Verified Attendee
  Not enough people there .  
Posted: 22/10/2026
Joe Verified Attendee
Posted: 22/10/2026
Jo Verified Attendee
  Once it got started it was good and fun to meet everyone.  
Posted: 22/10/2026
Shonagh Verified Attendee
Posted: 22/10/2026
Beau Verified Attendee
Posted: 12/08/2026
Leo Verified Attendee
Posted: 11/08/2026
Beau Verified Attendee
Posted: 11/08/2026
Beau Verified Attendee
Posted: 11/08/2026
Clive Verified Attendee
Posted: 11/08/2026
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HOW IT WORKS

The beauty of Speed Dating lies in its no-nonsense approach. You take an equal number of single girls and guys, put them in a room and give them a few minutes to chat with every other member of the opposite sex.

When you get there

Original speed dating events in London normally begin at 7.30pm. You will need to register with our hosts and to begin with they will issue you with a score sheet. This will help you to keep track of the singles that you would like to meet again and perhaps go on a date with. After a short period of mingling, your host for the evening who will run through detailed instructions and give you your starting position if you are a guy or table for the event if you are a girl.

Meet & Mingle

A London speed dating event is split into two halves, each lasting around an hour, there will be an interval at half time of about 15 minutes for speed dating London. You will have between 4 and 5 minutes with each person, after which you need to tick a box on your score sheet - "yes, I would like to meet this person again" or "no. Thanks but no thanks". Or "friend" if you'd like to get to know them platonically. Make sure that you do this after each date to keep track. Afterwards there is an opportunity for everyone to meet and mingle informally - this is often where the real action begins, so make sure you don't disappear too quickly!

Complete your score sheet

After the event you simply tick who you liked on the Original Dating website and the site works about your matches automatically. If the dates you have ticked as a "yes" have reciprocated you have a match. You will be able to view the first names and message them via our site online without revealing your email address until you are ready to. You'll be having proper first dates in no time.