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Monarch Cocktail Bar, Southampton, Southampton

Thursday, 16 April 2026

Thu 16
APR

Tickets

£22
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Our age guides are not set in stone. You are still welcome to book tickets if you are slightly outside the published age range.
Age
40-55
Home Southampton Speed Dating in Southampton

Speed Dating in Southampton

Monarch Cocktail Bar, Southampton, Southampton

Thursday, 16 April 2026

Thu 16
APR

Tickets

£22
?
Our age guides are not set in stone. You are still welcome to book tickets if you are slightly outside the published age range.
Age
40-55
This is a past event, please click here to see future events in Southampton.

About the event

If you’re hoping to meet new people and enjoy a brilliant night out, our lively speed dating event at the brand new Monarch cocktail bar is exactly what you need.

Sign up and you’ll be introduced to a room full of potential matches, with four minutes per date just enough time to feel a spark and decide whether you’d like to see someone again.

The next day, you’ll get access to our matching and messaging system. Simply choose the people you liked, and we’ll show you where the interest is mutual. From there, you can chat with your matches and arrange that all‑important follow‑up date.

If you’re ready to meet new people and enjoy a fun, relaxed evening in a fantastic new venue, secure your spot now!

Important information

- Doors open 7.00 pm
- Event starts 7.30 pm
- Event finishes 9.30 pm
- Venue closes 11.30 pm

It’s essential that you arrive before 7.25pm in order to take part. We might not be able to allow entry if you are late.

Price: £22

Sorry, this event has sold out

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Where

Stylish cocktail bar with expertly mixed signature and classic drinks. A relaxing vibe, perfect for a night of speed dating.

Address  Monarch Cocktail Bar, 25 Oxford St, Southampton SO14 3DJ

Nearest station  Southampton

Tel  023 8251 0432 – Please note this is not a booking line

Venue website  https://www.monarchcocktailbar.co.uk/

PLEASE NOTE: Advance booking is essential and no tickets will be available to purchase on the door. Online booking is simple and very secure. Our payments are handled by Stripe, one of the world's largest payment processors using the highest grade security currently available.

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Edyta Verified Attendee
Posted: 17/10/2026
Dina Verified Attendee
  Nora a lovely welcoming host. Nice venue  
Posted: 17/10/2026
Chris Verified Attendee
  Location and good numbers of participants.  
Posted: 17/10/2026
Elizabeth Verified Attendee
Posted: 17/10/2026
Alex Verified Attendee
Posted: 17/10/2026
James Verified Attendee
  The host was fantastic, nice venue too, good crowd of people.  
Posted: 17/10/2026
Reece Verified Attendee
  It was very good met lovely people but there was a lot more blokes than women and 3 and half minutes is not long enough maybe bump it up a little  
Posted: 17/10/2026
Selina Verified Attendee
  Well run event. Host was quite grumpy but my sense was there was pressure in the system as the event got changed to the back room bar and not upstairs. Fun evening.  
Posted: 17/10/2026
Julie Verified Attendee
Posted: 17/10/2026
Liza Verified Attendee
  The host was lovely. The venue was beautiful. Not enough men. The ladies has to wait.  
Posted: 17/10/2026
Sarita Verified Attendee
  Perfect hostess! Cosy venue! Friendly ladies! Delightful gentlemen.  
Posted: 16/10/2026
Kirsty Verified Attendee
  Had a great evening.  
Posted: 16/10/2026
Louise Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Jon Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Rio Verified Attendee
  An incredible experience at a lively venue and a good turnout for the event.  
Posted: 16/10/2026
Chrissie Verified Attendee
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Dean Verified Attendee
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Christopher Verified Attendee
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Emma Verified Attendee
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Ewelina Verified Attendee
  Everything was great, the host was lovely. I would say that it was a little too loud for me and a more intimate place would have been better.  
Posted: 16/10/2026
Laura Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Wolfgang Verified Attendee
  As my first speed dating event ever I found it very interesting and also sobering. The participants were all lovely people and it was amazing to find out, that these 5-6 minutes actually suffice to feel a definite impression with each person, if I would want to spend a longer time, say a couple of hours, with her. Kudos to the organizer for arranging such a pleasurable evening.  
Posted: 16/10/2026
Lewis Verified Attendee
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Millie Verified Attendee
Posted: 16/10/2026
Radu Verified Attendee
  Very good atmosphere 👌  
Posted: 16/10/2026
Christopher Verified Attendee
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Max Verified Attendee
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Beau Verified Attendee
Posted: 12/08/2026
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Clive Verified Attendee
Posted: 11/08/2026
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HOW IT WORKS

The beauty of Speed Dating lies in its no-nonsense approach. You take an equal number of single girls and guys, put them in a room and give them a few minutes to chat with every other member of the opposite sex.

When you get there

Original speed dating events in London normally begin at 7.30pm. You will need to register with our hosts and to begin with they will issue you with a score sheet. This will help you to keep track of the singles that you would like to meet again and perhaps go on a date with. After a short period of mingling, your host for the evening who will run through detailed instructions and give you your starting position if you are a guy or table for the event if you are a girl.

Meet & Mingle

A London speed dating event is split into two halves, each lasting around an hour, there will be an interval at half time of about 15 minutes for speed dating London. You will have between 4 and 5 minutes with each person, after which you need to tick a box on your score sheet - "yes, I would like to meet this person again" or "no. Thanks but no thanks". Or "friend" if you'd like to get to know them platonically. Make sure that you do this after each date to keep track. Afterwards there is an opportunity for everyone to meet and mingle informally - this is often where the real action begins, so make sure you don't disappear too quickly!

Complete your score sheet

After the event you simply tick who you liked on the Original Dating website and the site works about your matches automatically. If the dates you have ticked as a "yes" have reciprocated you have a match. You will be able to view the first names and message them via our site online without revealing your email address until you are ready to. You'll be having proper first dates in no time.