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From Match to Meaning: How to Turn a Speed Dating Connection into a Relationship

Wednesday September 4, 2024

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So, you’ve found a spark at a speed dating event—now what? Turning a fleeting connection into a meaningful relationship takes a bit of effort and intention. Here’s how to nurture that initial match and see where it can lead! 

 

Follow Up Promptly

After your speed dating event, don’t hesitate to reach out. Send a friendly message within a week to remind them of your conversation and express your interest in getting to know them better. A simple “Hi [Name], I enjoyed meeting you at [Event Name]! I’d love to continue our conversation” can go a long way. 

 

Be Genuine and Authentic

Show your true self when communicating. Authenticity is attractive, so let your personality shine through in your messages. Share your interests, experiences, and even a bit of humor to make your conversations more engaging. 

 

Suggest a Fun Date

Once you’ve established some rapport, propose a casual outing that reflects your shared interests. Whether it’s grabbing coffee, visiting a local museum, or trying out a new restaurant, choosing an activity you both enjoy can help deepen your connection. 

 

Communicate Openly

Honest communication is key to building a strong foundation. Discuss your expectations, interests, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. This helps ensure that you’re both on the same page and can foster a deeper understanding of each other. 

 

Take Your Time

Don’t rush the process! Allow the relationship to develop naturally. Spend time together and get to know each other better. The more experiences you share, the stronger your bond will become. 

 

Be Supportive

Show interest in their life and aspirations. Being supportive of their goals and dreams can strengthen your connection and demonstrate that you genuinely care about them. 

 

Keep the Spark Alive

As your relationship progresses, keep the excitement alive by planning new and fun activities together. Explore new hobbies, take short trips, or have spontaneous adventures to create lasting memories. 

 

Book Your Next Speed Dating Event!

If you want to expand your options or meet more people, don’t forget to check out upcoming events at Original Dating. Visit our website to find your next opportunity to connect! 

 

Turning a speed dating match into a relationship requires effort, intention, and open communication. So, take the plunge, nurture that connection, and see where it leads. You never know—your next match could be the one! 

 

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HOW IT WORKS

The beauty of Speed Dating London lies in its no-nonsense approach. You take an equal number of single girls and guys, put them in a room and give them a few minutes to chat with every other member of the opposite sex.

When you get there

Original speed dating events in London normally begin at 7.30pm. You will need to register with our hosts and to begin with they will issue you with a score sheet. This will help you to keep track of the singles that you would like to meet again and perhaps go on a date with. After a short period of mingling, your host for the evening who will run through detailed instructions and give you your starting position if you are a guy or table for the event if you are a girl.

Meet & Mingle

A London speed dating event is split into two halves, each lasting around an hour, there will be an interval at half time of about 15 minutes for speed dating London. You will have between 4 and 5 minutes with each person, after which you need to tick a box on your score sheet - "yes, I would like to meet this person again" or "no. Thanks but no thanks". Or "friend" if you'd like to get to know them platonically. Make sure that you do this after each date to keep track. Afterwards there is an opportunity for everyone to meet and mingle informally - this is often where the real action begins, so make sure you don't disappear too quickly!

Complete your score sheet

After the event you simply tick who you liked on the Original Dating website and the site works about your matches automatically. If the dates you have ticked as a "yes" have reciprocated you have a match. You will be able to view the first names and message them via our site online without revealing your email address until you are ready to. You'll be having proper first dates in no time.